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How to get the most out of homeschool co-ops

SchneiderPeeps How to get the most from your homeschool co-op

Last week we had our final homeschool co-op day. It has been a wonderful year. My kids have had an incredible time even while being pushed really hard. This is our 7th year of co-op and it has been one of the most enjoyable homeschool things we’ve done.

I’m always amazed when people tell me that they don’t have time for a co-op. What I’ve found is that being part of a co-op actually saves me time and money.

First let me say that there are lots of different kinds of co-ops structured in many different ways. I don’t think there is one “right” way to do a homeschool co-op. There are some that are just a couple of families and meet in a home. There are some that have hundreds of families and dozens of classes. There are some that require parents to teach and some that hire most of the teaching out and the parents just pay for the classes. There are some that just have enrichment type classes and some that just have academic type classes. And then there’s everything in between. I think that all of these serve a purpose in the local homeschool community.

So how can you make the most of homeschool co-ops?

~Read the Guidelines…  Every co-op should have some guidelines. I’m going to suggest that if the co-op is open to more than just a few families, those guidelines need to be in writing. When we started planning our co-op almost 8 years ago, we read all kinds of guidelines and spent hours putting our’s together. We’ve had to tweak them here and there but once the guidelines are set for the year, they are set for the year and everyone is expected to abide by them. Our guidelines cover what is expected from parents, students and  teachers (we have a few who are not parents). It also covers the cost and dates we meet.

Texas History Field Trip

~ Know what your children need next year… But be flexible. For instance, I know I want my upper elementary, middle school and high school students to have a writing class each year. But I’m flexible with the curriculum. Because honestly, this is an area that I struggle to get done in our home and I know they’ll get more out of a writing class at co-op than not really doing a super cool, amazing curriculum at home. Same thing with science. We’ve had families not join co-op because we were offering Apologia Physical Science and they wanted their middle schooler to take Apologia General Science. But really, if the student hasn’t taken either one, it’s ok to them out of order. This is not the case with all classes, you can’t take Chemistry if you haven’t finished Algebra, but you get the idea.

~ Offer to teach what you’ll already be teaching at home… I know that sometimes, especially moms of little ones want to teach older students. I get that. But you need to be honest about your time. For most middle school and high school classes there are several hours a week of reading and prep work. You need to be sure you can do that prep work plus homeschool your younger children the way you want to. I usually teach a middle school science class because I love the Christian Kids Explore series and that’s what we use at home. This year I taught Apologia Chemistry which is NOT my first pick of things to teach. But Gabriel needed it and I’ve taught it before and the parent who is really, really great at this class went back to work. So, I could either do chemistry at home with Gabriel (and we could both gripe about it the whole time) or I could teach it at co-op where experiments are much more fun in a group. It didn’t cost me any more time and it blessed other parents. I wanted to do Texas History with Phoebe and Benjamin this year and one of our co-op moms decided she would teach it at co-op. It was such a blessing to not have to wory about history this year.

Pompeii project

~Take advantage of being in a group… One thing I’ve noticed over my 15 years of homeschooling is that (as a generalization) homeschoolers don’t work well in a group….parents or students. Homeschooling allows us to do just what benefits our child or family without consideration of others. Usually that’s great. However, our students do need to learn to work together in a group…where no one gets everything he wants but the group is stronger because of the members. This year I taught a logic class which is a class that is designed to have lots of discussion, which are my favorite type of classes. Each student had to do an end of the year project. As we were talking about what their projects could be someone suggested they do a group project. Ok, I’m not going to lie,  I thought, “ugh…I don’t have time to do a group project.” But the kids were so excited and they started brainstorming and goal setting. They started discussing ideas and incorporating everyone. It was really amazing to see. They did a re-enactment of Pompeii and it was better than any individual project they could have done. Which leads me to another “group” point, some classes are just hard to do at home….classes like speech or crafts or science labs.

~Decide early… There’s somewhat of a catch 22 for homeschool co-op leaders. People don’t want to commit until they know what classes are being offered but we don’t know what classes students need for us to offer  until people commit. If you are thinking about joining a co-op or continuing with one, do your directors a favor and go ahead and tell them you are joining or you’re not. That way, you can be in on the planning and  the classes your children need will probably be taught. Not because you’re their favorite but because they know what you need. Then co-op can be a help in your homeschool instead of burden by being just one more thing you’ve added on to your homeschool day.

In many ways, this past year was the easiest homeschool year I’ve had. Esther is only in pre-k and while she’s done some “school”, we’re pretty relaxed with that age and I’ve not felt pressure for her to do school every day or honestly, even every week. Benjamin and Phoebe are both in middle school and through our co-op took science, literature, writing, Texas history and a craft class. They did minimal work for me at home – just math and some stuff that we do together in the morning, ie. Bible reading, Greek & Latin roots and creative writing. Gabriel took chemistry, logic, speech/apologetics and computer skills. At home he did math and world history. Josiah took literature and apologetics at co-op and some classes at our local community college. At home he just did math. As you can see, with my older children I’ve become more of a mentor and facilitator than a teacher. It’s a good transition for all of us.

We’re not quite done for the year. We still have the homeschool drama club and we choose to do math year round. But overall, the bulk of our school year is done and co-op is a big reason for that.

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If you homeschool do you use a co-op? What suggestions would you give?

Thanks for sharing with your friends!

John Smith

Wednesday 29th of June 2016

Great share! It is not only the regular schools that offer a wide range of courses but it is also available online that offer an extensive range of homeschool writing education.


Friday 27th of May 2016

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Monday 21st of April 2014

Oh that is wonderful if you can help us.! I emailed Aren and her mother , Mary who is the editor. They self published this and there are thirteen books in Aren's head at this time, and book 2 is coming out in a week or so. Wait until you read it! Maybe we can send you one. SOMeone hs my second book as I have gotten folks here to read it as I can,and if I get it back I will send it to you if you give me your address.

Mary homeschooled her three children. One was a Fransciscan Monk in Jerusalem for four years, but just now came home. One is a nun in Ohio at St Claires, and Aren is at home helping Mary keep the home, and they are both writing and editing. I am so excited for them and all.

I am a teacher of students at risk, and have a legally blind son living in Northfield who is a writer as well. He and I are working on his book, Bart Jenkins and The Magic Bag. I have an old house here in Virginia Mn.I turned into a B and B Willowhouse and now am selling it to move down where Erick is located so we can write.

I will get my book from the lady who has had it and send it to you as soon as she gives it to me. I will let you know when I get it back. Thank you so much for thinking the book is amazing, because it is. I cannot wait to read book two.! Again thank you!---Merri I will ask you for your address when I get the book...Cheers---


Monday 21st of April 2014

Hi, I forgot to give you my email address: [email protected]


Monday 21st of April 2014

Hi, How would one get addresses of the homeschooling co-ops? My friend, Aren Lerener , has written a new book BENEATH OLD GLORY: Fort Orphans, which is able to be reviewed on I am a teacher, and I think the book woudl be perfect for home schooling folks as it combines history so beautifully, with English requirements. It is a fantastic read, and ARen is a historian, and it could very well fulfill both English and history requirements. In addition, it would be open to many projects such as you depit here in this blog entry today. Please check out the book, and then if you could email me privately the adresses or perhpas ideas to help Aren get her book out there for use in homeschooling, I would be so grateful Thank you and thank you for your lively, wonderful blog here.,--Merri

Angi Schneider

Monday 21st of April 2014

Merri, I would love to help. I looked it up on Amazon and it looks amazing.